But he never wants sex and I'm highly sexual. Post Comment Your name. I feel like this was a bait and switch because she used to love doing this. You should empathize and validate your wife's perspective, by saying things like, "I know you really don't want to do this anymore. We are mature when receiving feedback and are careful to express our concerns in a gentle manner. Whatever causes the breakdown of communication, it nearly always seems to bleed over into the bedroom. Yes - I think that women often underestimate how important that sexual connection is for a man's well-being and just think, "Oh, that again - he wants sex", without realizing the depth behind that wish on a husband's part.
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This is my exciting marriage. My two last children are 12 and I knew the reality of the situation prior to children but refused to believe it. If she is treating your kids horribly, my apologies. There is now no intimacy. I have seen men and women look at me in a sexual way.
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Emotionally, we were divorced. Totally delusional and about everything, nothing but attitude. We were in our mids when we met, and we are an attractive couple, but she believes that sex should just be for reproductive purposes. It was the only thing I knew. Which is something she has never done with any partner. Overweight, tired all the time, and forget a goddamn blowjob.
Sometimes, like right now, I wish that this thread existed before I was married. Keep the money we work hard for. Her happiness did not derive from me, nor did it derive from what she had internally. Another words, he is an ideal husband. You hit it on the head.